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Rebuilding After Deconstructing

As you may know, the purpose of this blog isn’t bash the church, but rather to be a place of healing for people who feel they’ve been hurt by

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“Assembling” Together

I’m not real fond of the term “haters.” Even though it hurts having people swoop in on a comment flyby and leave all sorts of judgmental thoughts and opinions,

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Formalizing Family

As I was eating breakfast with my wife and our two little girls, I let my mind wander, daydreaming about what it would be like to “institutionalize” or formalize

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Worship Leader’s Lament

As I write this book, it seems I’ve been turning lately to poetry to explore each phase of the journey. Here’s the latest: A Worship Leader’s Lament Row behind row pew beyond

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Recovering from Church Hurt

Every so often, I try to share something to help encourage us on the road to recovery. This week I read an incredible series by Mike Friesen at Christianity

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Bathing in Forgiveness

A few years ago, I wrote a short piece called “Hurt people hurt people.” I was encouraging people who were emotionally bruised to choose to walk in healing instead

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